Men and women grow up in this world without formal gender education. Men and women learn a few things about each other from their parents, family, friends and school, but it's not enough and most people live their entire lives having never learnt anything about the opposite gender.
Men and women are very different. Physiologically we're different, but we also have different emotions, thoughts, expectations, desires, feelings and strengths.
Gender education need to be established to teach men and women about each other so they can benefit each other in mutual responsibility.
I'm not talking about sexual education, I'm talking about gender education that teaches men and women about the essence of men and the essence of women.
The internal workings of both genders needs to be revealed and taught so men and women can become aware of each other in a new, accurate and truthful way.
Why Do Men And Women Need To Learn About Each Other?
Our internal qualities are going to change from selfishness to love of others. We're going to seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.
In order to benefit others, we have to know something about them. We have to know what makes them happy, what brings them pleasure and what fulfills them.
It's difficult for a woman to benefit a man if she doesn't know anything about men, and it's difficult for a man to benefit a woman if he doesn't know anything about women.
Today, everyone's immersed in selfishness - men expect women to cater to their needs and women expect men to cater to their needs. There's constant misunderstandings and everyone's frustrated because men and women don't really understand each other.
Gender education needs to be established to teach men and women about each other so they can apply the principles of mutual responsibility and concern for others, in order to truly benefit each other.
Men will learn about women and women will learn about men. Men will take what they learn about women and use it to benefit women, and women will take what they learn about men and use it to benefit men.
Men and women will remain independently different, yet will become fully aware of the differences between the genders and will be sensitive to each others needs and desires.
I'm not talking sexually, I'm talking everyday life. The connection between men and women will be based on mutual responsibility and the genders will genuinely take care of each other.
Once men and women learn about each other, the differences that keep us apart will be broken, gender will no longer be a mystery, the tension that now exists between the genders will be eliminated.
Men and women will become interconnected in the quality of love of others.
This will be part of the solution to creating harmony and balance in the entire world because it will provide a solid foundation to build a new society where everyone is seeking to benefit others instead of seeking to benefit themselves.
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