- John Seeks To Benefit Mary:
- John adopts Mary's desires as his own and spends all his time, energy and effort seeking to benefit her.
- John rises above his ego and stops being immersed in his own desires. Instead, he becomes immersed in Mary's desires.
- John stops being immersed in selfishness and he becomes immersed in bestowal, seeking to benefit others instead of himself.
- While physically he's still John, he lives in Mary's desires, so he's Mary. In this way, John becomes interconnected with Mary.
- Mary Seeks To Benefit John:
- Mary adopts John's desires as her own and spends all her time, energy and effort seeking to benefit him.
- Mary rises above her ego and stops being immersed in her own desires. Instead, she becomes immersed in John's desires.
- Mary stops being immersed in selfishness and she becomes immersed in bestowal, seeking to benefit others instead of herself.
- While physically she's still Mary, she lives in John's desires, so she's John. In this way, Mary becomes interconnected with John.
Mary and John become interconnected with each other in mutual concern and consideration. In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.
It's not about making others happy because there are many destructive things that make people 'happy'. It's about doing good to others, benefiting them in a positive and constructive way.
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