Men And Women Have Different Needs

Men and women have different needs:

1. Women:
• Women need men for love and for emotional companionship. She misses him when he's away because she becomes emotionally attached to him, she becomes lonely without him. He fulfills her internally and she needs that.
• Men don't understand this about women because men don't need women the same way.
• If men understood that women need them emotionally, and if men began to behave in a way that fulfilled this desire in women, then men would give women what they need and they'd become interconnected in a positive and constructive way.
• For example, men could use certain gestures, behaviour, words or language to touch their women emotionally. He could say something tender to her, or spend more time with her.
• In this way, men would rise above their personal selfishness, become immersed in the desires of women, and seek only to benefit women instead of themselves. Men would live to fulfill women.
2. Men:
• Men need women for love and men need women to admired them. Men need women to see them as great and important. Everything men do, they do to impress women.
• Women don't understand this about men because women don't need men the same way.
• If women understood that men do everything to impress them, and if they began to behave in a way that fulfilled this desire in men, then women would give men what they need and they'd become interconnected in a positive and constructive way.
• For example, women could use certain gestures, behaviour, words or language to let men know that they appreciate them. She could praise him for his hard work or thank him for all his efforts.
• In this way, women would rise above their personal selfishness, become immersed in the desires of men, and seek only to benefit men instead of themselves. Women would live to fulfill men.

Formal classes could be taught to teach men and women about each other, how to treat each other in mutual bestowal so they can become connected in a complementary way.

In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.

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