Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Saturday, February 28, 2015

We KNOW What We Experience

Edited Mar 2, 2015.

The only thing we truly KNOW is what we experience.

For example, the way I see the colour blue, isn't necessarily the way you see the colour blue. I don't know how you see the colour blue, and you don't know how I see the colour blue. The only thing I truly KNOW is how I see the colour blue, and the only thing you truly know is how you see the colour blue.

Perhaps there are infinite ways to see the colour blue - you may see it one way, I may see it another way, someone else may see it another way etc. Someone else may even see the colour white instead of the colour blue [1]. The only thing I truly KNOW is what I see and experience, and the only thing you truly KNOW is what you see and experience.

We can't make the assumption that we all experience things the same way. We tend to assume that we do, but we don't actually know.

The only thing we truly KNOW is what we experience personally, and what we experience personally is our reality. Since we may be experiencing things differently, we may be living in different realities.

When we connect in mutual bestowal (changing from benefiting ourselves to benefiting others), we'll become united as one. Then, perhaps I'll experience your colour blue and you'll experience my colour blue. While we're immersed in selfishness, disconnected from others, we only experience our own individual sensation of the colour blue. When we all connect in mutual bestowal, perhaps we'll experience the infinite sensation of the colour blue (when all our sensations of the colour blue unite as one). Perhaps. I don't know.

In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.
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References:
  1. Is this dress white and gold or blue and black? www.bbc.com/news. Feb 27, 2015. Retrieved Feb 28, 2015.
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Monday, December 15, 2014

Changing From Selfishness To Bestowal Is A Process

The transformation from personal selfishness (seeking to benefit ourselves) to mutual bestowal (seeking to benefit others) is a process; just like getting pregnant, going into labour and giving birth is a process; and just like growing up from childhood to adulthood is a process.

With respect to the quality of bestowal, some people may be expecting instant gratification, instant answers, instant results, an immediate fix, all the answers at once, but we know that life doesn't work that way. Here's an explanation:
  1. Overwhelming:
    • Too much, too soon, can be too much.
    • If a person is given too much new information, they may become overwhelmed, which isn't a good thing. A gradual process gives people time to adjust to new information, new situations and new states.
  2. Learning:
    • Learning is always a process that takes time. We need time to learn, and it takes time to go from simple material to more detailed, complicated material.
  3. Growing:
    • Growing is always a process that takes time. Just as it takes time to grow from childhood to adulthood, we need time to grow from selfishness to bestowal.
  4. Love:
    • Love is very gentle and tender and this is reflected in the gradual processes of growth and development.
  5. The Bible:
    • The Bible was revealed over thousands of years - The Torah was given to Moses, The Psalms to King David etc. The book we know today wasn't written in one sitting, it was thousands of years in the making, including the time it took to be translated into Greek, English and other languages.
  6. The Quran:
    • The Quran was revealed to Muhammad over 23 years starting in 609 CE (age 40) until his death in 632 CE (age 62 or 63). It took another 20 years after his death before it was committed to written form. [1] Then there's the time it took to be translated into other languages.
Be patient. Take this time to learn, to grow and to adjust. There's more coming, just don't expect it all at once. A little bit at a time will help us adjust to the new information that we're given.

Expect a gradual process of revelation consistent with the gradual revelation of The Bible, the gradual revelation of The Quran, the gradual process of learning and the gradual process of growing.

In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.
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References:
  1. Quran. www.en.wikipedia.org. Retrieved Dec 15, 2014.
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Monday, December 1, 2014

The Purpose Of Life Is To Learn How To Love

The purpose of life is to learn how to love and love is when we seek to benefit others instead of ourselves. So ask yourself, how are you doing?

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Monday, November 10, 2014

Wanted: Dead Or Alive

What does the phrase Wanted: Dead Or Alive mean? It depends on whether we're talking about the physical body or our internal qualities. Let's take a look:
  1. Physical Body:
    • With respect to our physical body, the phrase Wanted: Dead or Alive means two opposite things:
      • Dead: If somebody's captured, they could be killed.
      • Alive: If somebody's captured, they could be taken alive. 
    • The phrase has potentially negative connotations.
    • If a person is Wanted: Dead or Alive, it means they're wanted either physically Dead or physically Alive, two opposite states.
    1. Internal Qualities: 
      • With respect to our internal qualities, the phrase Wanted: Dead Or Alive means the exact same thing, meaning when one quality dies, a new quality is born and comes to life:
        • Dead: This means the death of the quality of selfishness.
        • Alive: This means the birth of the quality of bestowal.
      • When we change from personal selfishness (seeking to benefit ourselves) to mutual bestowal (seeking to benefit others), selfishness dies and bestowal is born, bestowal comes to life.
      • The phrase has positive connotations because both Dead and Alive mean the exact same thing, moving from selfishness to bestowal.
      • If a person is Wanted: Dead Or Alive, it means they're wanted with their quality of selfishness Dead (meaning they're in bestowal), or they're wanted with their quality of bestowal Alive (meaning they're in bestowal). Both mean the exact same thing.
    In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.

    Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

    Saturday, November 8, 2014

    Community Living: Life

    Edited Nov 8, 2014.

    This post is a suggestion of ideas and ways that we could create a society that's based on bestowal, where we all seek to benefit others instead of ourselves. The goal is to increase the connection between us, foster cooperation, collaboration and unity, increase efficiencies and decrease costs, while focusing on our basic needs - food, water, clothing, shelter, healthcare, education etc. I'm sure you have your own ideas.

    Here are some notes about LIFE:
    1. Contributing To Society:
      • We're all different and we have different roles to play, but we're all equal, like different pieces of one puzzle. If we all contribute to society, meaning we all contribute our piece to the puzzle, then in turn society would look after us.
    2. Help Managing Our Lives:
      • It takes a lot of energy, coordination and organization to manage our lives, for example, managing relationships with family and friends, learning, working, managing our households such as paying bills, doing chores, keeping up with home maintenance and repairs etc. For those people who struggle to manage their lives, help could be made available to them. For example, a committee could manage their lives for them so they'd have every kind of support available.
        What ideas do you have for building a new society that's based on cooperation, collaboration and bestowal? In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.

        Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Friday, September 26, 2014

        I've Discovered The Meaning Of My Life

        We have to change from personal selfishness to mutual bestowal:
        1. We have to rise above our egos and stop harming others
        2. We have to adopt other people's desires as our own
        3. Then we have to seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.
        In this way, we live in other people. We live in their desires.

        "Specifically because I've lived a life that's not mine, I've discovered the meaning of my life."

        In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.

        Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Wednesday, July 23, 2014

        Live As Though You're Being Watched

        We tend to behave differently if we think we're being watched. For example people pay may pick their nose in private but not in public. Or people may be abusive in private but not in public.

        Live your life as though you're being watched. Behave in private as you would in public. We shouldn't have a private standard and a public standard. We should have one standard. In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.

        Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Friday, July 11, 2014

        What If Someone Else Experienced Your Life?

        What if someone else experienced your exact same life? How would you feel? Is your life yours? Are your experiences yours? Do you own the experiences of your life? Or are they simply experiences that you've lived through? What if someone else lived through those exact same experiences?

        We share many similar experiences together, like when we watch a movie together. While we share the same event, the event has a unique internal impact on each and every one of us.

        Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Tuesday, April 8, 2014

        Consciousness?

        When we're born, we have to learn how to be in the human body. We have to learn how to eat, how to walk, how to speak etc. Also, we learn a lot from our social environment, which influences our growth and development.

        Animals too, have to learn how to be in their bodies. They have to learn how to eat, how to walk, how to communicate etc. They also learn a lot form their social environment, which also influences their growth and development.

        We're not born will full understanding, we learn it. So what are we? Who are we? Consciousness? Awareness? What is that within us that has to learn?

        Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Tuesday, April 1, 2014

        Life Is Like A Play

        Life is like a play, it's full of actors, scenes, rehearsals and performances. The only thing is that we're not invited to the rehearsals and we don't know the script.

        Our development is very carefully managed from above. We're constantly being exposed to new scenes, events and scenarios that not only help with our personal growth and development, but also tell a story, even connecting with a larger arc story.

        These scenarios play out like scenes in a play. The actors meet to review the scenes (events), they're debriefed on the script, they rehearse the events that are to take place knowing exactly what to say, how to behave, how to act etc., then they wait for our arrival.

        By the time we show up, we think everything is happening by chance. We're unaware of all the preparation that's been taking place.

        The scenes (events) unfold according to the script, with the other actors playing their well rehearsed roles. We're performing in a play, but we're unaware of it.

        Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Saturday, January 18, 2014

        Wake Up

        Wake up from selfishness to bestowal. Rise from the dead of selfishness to life in bestowal. In everything we do, we should seek to benefit others instead of ourselves.

        Copyright © 2014, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Tuesday, October 15, 2013

        Do Not Be Afraid To Lose Everything

        Today, our identity is tied up with how much money we have, what schools we went to, our status in society, the status of our family and friends, power, influence etc.

        We build a life and we become emotionally attached to it, so much so that sometimes we resort to destructive behaviour to keep what we have, our money, power, influence etc. We don't want to let go of what we have so we fight to keep it. 

        This life is an illusion, smoke and mirrors, there's nothing there. Things are not what they seem and we have to let go of our attachment to the things of this life.

        We shouldn't be afraid to let go of everything that we have and everything that we know. We shouldn't be afraid to lose our jobs, our wealth, our money, our families, our power etc.

        If we connect with each other in mutual concern and responsibility, and we seek to benefit others instead of ourselves, we'll find a new family among us and we'll be fulfilled in a new way. But we have to let go of our old selfish ways in order to make room for this new life.

        Do not be afraid to let go. Do not be afraid, God is with us.

        Copyright © 2013, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Wednesday, July 24, 2013

        Second Chances Are Really Important

        We all do negative things, things that later, we come to regret. It's part of being a human being and it's part of learning good behaviour from bad behaviour.

        As we grow up, life experiences show us that our negative destructive behaviour from our past was/is inappropriate. We learn constructive behaviour and we want that positive behaviour in our lives, in our children's lives and in our community as a whole.

        It is possible for people to change, to transform, to see the positive from the negative, to see the constructive from the destructive.

        As such, second chances are really important. It gives people an opportunity to engage in their own personal growth and development, to become better human beings.

        Also, it's an expression of our humanity, an expression of our emotional intelligence, traits that we need in society today - empathy, consideration, understanding, compassion, sympathy, love and genuine concern for the welfare and well-being of others.

        If you kill someone, you've denied them any chance of a second chance.

        Copyright © 2013, Carter Kagume. All Rights Reserved.

        Wednesday, June 5, 2013

        A Prayer for The Resurrection of The Dead

        You are God, The One True God
        The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob
        The Living God, The Infinite God
         
        We pray for ourselves
           because we are immersed in the quality of selfishness
        In this state we are dead
           because we are disconnected from You and from each other
           seeking only to benefit ourselves
         
        We pray for our resurrection
           the resurrection of the dead
        That we may exit the quality of selfishness called 'death'
           and be raised from the dead
        Bring us back to 'life', to the quality of love of others
        That we may seek to benefit others instead of ourselves
        And become connected with You and with each other

        We want to return to You
        Which means we have to change our inner qualities
        By changing our inner qualities we return to you in quality
        You are love and Your Kingdom is the quality of love of others
        Raise us from the dead and bring us back to life
        Change our inner qualities from selfishness to love of others

        Copyright  © 2013, Carter Kagume. All rights reserved.

        Wednesday, May 8, 2013

        Death Itself Dies and Life Itself Lives

        The Bible and the Quran both speak about two families: the family of selfishness (seeking to benefit oneself), governed by the devil; and the family of love of others (seeking to benefit others), governed by God. 

        Both books talk about how we will change our qualities from selfishness to love of others and return to God.

         
        è   è   è   We Develop from Selfishness to Love of Others   è   è   è
         
        Family of Selfishness
        Family of Love of Others



               Seeking to benefit oneself
               This family has a father, mother, brother, sister etc


               Seeking to benefit others
               This family has a father, mother, brother, sister etc
               Father is the devil
               Kingdom of this world
               Father is God
               Kingdom of God
        DEATH
        LIFE
        The quality of selfishness is considered death.
         
        When we are in the quality of selfishness we are separated from God because God is the quality of love of others.
         
        When we are separated from God we are considered dead.
         
        When we change our qualities from selfishness to love of others, the quality of selfishness within us dies. That which keeps us separated from God dies.
         
        Death itself dies.
         
        ... and the quality of love of others within us comes to life.
        The quality of love of others is considered life.
         
        When we are in the quality of love of others we are connected to God because God is the quality of love of others.
         
        When we are connected to God we are considered alive.
         
        When we change our qualities from selfishness to love of others, the quality of selfishness within us dies and the quality of love of others within us comes to life.
         
        Life itself lives.
         
        We become a part of God's family, the family of love of others.
        Copyright © 2013 , Carter Kagume. May be used for research purposes only. May not be used for any commercial purposes.

        Tuesday, May 7, 2013

        Life, Death, Resurrection and Being Born Again

        The Bible and the Quran speak about two families: the family of selfishness (seeking to benefit oneself), governed by the devil; and the family of love of others (seeking to benefit others), governed by God.

        Both the Bible and the Quran talk about how we will change our qualities from selfishness to love of others:

        1. The quality of selfishness will DIE and the quality of love of others will LIVE

        2. When our quality changes from selfishness (death) to love of others (life), this is considered the RESURRECTION of the dead because the dead quality of selfishness will rise to life and be in the quality of love of others

        3. We will be BORN AGAIN, out of the quality of selfishness into the quality of love of others

         
        è   Ã¨   Ã¨   We Develop from Selfishness to Love of Others   è   Ã¨   Ã¨
         
        Family of Selfishness
        Family of Love of Others

               Seeking to benefit oneself
               This family has a father, mother, brother, sister etc

               Seeking to benefit others
               This family has a father, mother, brother, sister etc
               Father is the devil
               Kingdom of this world
               Father is God
               Kingdom of God
               Born of the flesh
               Death
               Born of the Spirit
               Life
        "And the disbeliever says, "When I have died, am I going to be brought forth alive?" (Quran 19:66, Sahih) Meaning when I am in the quality of selfishness (dead) will I be brought back to life in the quality of love of others? Answer: YES
         
        "Thus does Allah bring the dead to life..." (Quran 2:73, Sahih) Meaning God will change our quality from selfishness to love of others
         
        "He gives life and causes death, and to Him you will be returned." (Quran 10:56, Sahih) Meaning God causes the quality of selfishness to die and causes the quality of love of others to live and we will be returned to God's Family
         
        "13. Then you shall know that I am the Lord (YHVH), when I have opened your graves, O My people, and brought you up from your graves. 14. I will put My Spirit in you, and you shall live..." (Ezekiel 37:13-14, NKJV) Meaning we will leave the quality of selfishness (the grave) and enter into the quality of love of others (life)
         
        "I will ransom them from the power of the grave; I will redeem them from death. O Death, I will be your plagues! O Grave, I will be your destruction!" (Hosea 13:14, NKJV) Meaning we will leave the quality of selfishness
        "Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. " (John 3:3, NKJV) Meaning you have to be born out of the quality of selfishness into the quality of love of others
         
        "Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. 6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit." (John 3:5-6, NKJV) Meaning our internal quality (spirit) will change from selfishness to love of others
         
        "... the kingdom of God is within you." (Luke 17:21, NKJV) Meaning our internal qualities determine which kingdom we belong to. If we're in the quality of selfishness we belong to the kingdom of this world, if we're in the quality of love of others we belong to the kingdom of God.
         
        "O Lord, You brought my soul up from the grave; You have kept me alive, that I should not go down to the pit." (Psalm 30:3, NKJV) Meaning God has brought me out of the quality of selfishness into the quality of love of others
         
        "He will surely assemble you for the Day of Resurrection ..." (Quran 6:12, Sahih) Meaning we will be resurrected from the quality of selfishness (death) into the quality of love of others (life)
        Copyright © 2013 , Carter Kagume. May be used for research purposes only. May not be used for any commercial purposes.